I really enjoyed Gods of the North when I listened to it. Having two friends who are die hard Conan fans, I forwarded the link, and they enjoyed the story as well. And then one of them commented about the discussion in the forums.
For the record, I am a woman, mother, writer, gamer, advocate for individuals with special needs, LGBTI advocate and supporter, and all around liberal. What I am not is PC.
I had no problems with the story, the assault, the message towards women, or how male behavior is viewed. I've given a fair bit of thought to comments made in this discussion, and, like Dave, am glad that people feel free to speak out, but I find many of the "MY GODS, IT'S RAPEZ!" views to be fairly narrow which disturbs me.
Conan is neither a good nor a bad guy. He is a character, a larger than life representation of human urges, thoughts, and desires, one without a definite "this is good, this is evil" line of demarcation that people expect from their fiction today. Howard recognized this when writing the character, and Conan certainly is not the "worst" or most "barbaric" of his characters.
Yes, rape is a matter of control/power/dominance, I will not argue that (I am also a survivor, and a one time survivor advocate), but I feel readers do themselves a disservice by limiting their views of the story to their modern norms. I apologize for not remembering who first remarked that no one has a problem with the slaughter of the story, or that it is based on ideological/religious norms, a very true observation. Even today folks come to expect killing in fantasy stories, but the subject of rape is one that causes folks to take up arms and put on their "why can't you see that I'm right?" face.
Again, my apologies for not remembering names, but to say that rape was not condoned in Greek myth is too broad a statement. What period? When? What characters? There's still debate whether some of the myths are geared towards a level of societal commentary, or as a means of explaining away incidents of bestiality that came about as a result of some of the lesser known rites and rituals.
Does the story encourage stereotypical beliefs of "bad" women or "brutish" men? I don't believe so, but some readers' milage may vary. I enjoyed the story for the story's sake. I did not see it as a matter of rape any more than I would expect two frost giants to leap out of the snow drifts at the end of my drive in the dead of winter. Howard wrote a specific type of fantasy that is as welcome on my bookshelves as Tolkien, Amal el-Mohtar, Le Guin, and Ellison.
Thank you, Dave and Anna, for another crack episode.
Sandra