it seems a touch mean-spirited for someone who hides behind an obscured identity in a forum like this to jump out and say, "Ah-ha! You assumed I was just like you, and because you happen to belong to the Traditional Dominant Majority, that makes you culturally insensitive!"
Tad, to be honest, this offends me. It's mean-spirited of you to assume this is my motivation, especially when I've explained my motivation elsewhere.
Palimpsest's point about "othering" is valid, but that was not what Slic seemed to be saying. Rather, when he pictures someone with interests similar to his, he pictures someone who looks like himself. The reason he doesn't see it as harmful is because in his mind, he is relating to someone as an equal; when that person turns out NOT to be a mirror image of himself, does he treat them any differently? My impression, based on his comments in this forum, is that he probably does not.
Fine. And what's hard about not calling me male, if you don't know? What's hard about questioning your assumptions? That's all anyone has asked.
But my point is that while there is a great deal of race- and gender-based discrimination in the world, white males are just as likely to be suffering from it as anyone else.
Do you have evidence for this? I have evidence to back up that it's not true. Women are paid less than men. Black people are paid less than whites. Asians are paid less than whites.
Women and minorities are underrepresented in government, in top corporate positions -- down to genre magazines.
What systemic prejudice is there against white men? Stats, please.
most of the white males I know are pretty pleased to have been relieved of the white man's burden, and would just like to hang out with the rest of y'all without having to walk on eggshells all the time.
I'd love you to be free of the white man's burden too. But in the meantime, we live in a country where infant mortality is fantastically higher if you happen not to be white, and where poverty is a heritable condition through the female line.
White men have privelege. I, as a white woman, have privelege. As a white woman with parents who make much more than the statistical norm, I have even more privelege.
That means my way is eased in many things. It means I can go to college without debt. It means I didn't have to work my way through high school to keep groceries on the table. It means that I can be at this MFA program. It means that I could afford to go to one of the seven sisters for my undergraduate education, and that I could leave to find another school when it became intolerable.
It means that I can look at characters on television and see their whiteness as my own. It means I don't have to be ashamed of my skin, or worry about "paper bag tests." It means I don't have to know that I'm part of a demographic that is least likely to marry in the country. It means if I get raped by a white man, I won't have to worry about people refusing to believe me because "black women aren't attractive enough to get raped by white men." It means I don't have to listen to people call me unhygeinic, or listen to teh racist theories of teh bell curve masquerading under the guise of science to say that intelligence only evolved in European climes. It means if I get raped by a black man, I don't have to fear reporting because of the historical clubs that have been used to hit black men over and over, calling them sexually deviant and animalistic. It means that, because of my race, my presence in porn is not automatically "a fetish." It means that my grandparents didn't have to smile more than the normal population, in order to seem subservient. It means I don't have to worry about inviting white people into my space.
As a man, you get priveleges. You get to not be constructed as a victim. You get to be the default in your gender. You get to see media representations of yourself in successful positions, as three-dimensional characters, scattered everywhere. If you go out drinking, no one will say you are asking for rape. If you do get raped, people will say that it's worse on you than for a woman, as a prominent rape activist recently said about men who are raped. If you go to work and need to take time off for your children, you will be seen as a family man who is responsible, where women who do the same are frequently seen as having their attentions unhealthily divided between family and home.
(We would also like to have as much money as everyone seems to assume we do, but that's another topic altogether.)
No one said individual white men are rich. I said that white men, as a class, make more money and are more represented than women and minorities, as classes.
But I highly suspect that, at least in this arena, discovering the "real" identity of your favorite author falls more into the "interesting side-note" category than the "earth-shattering revelation" category.
I can understand where it's an interesting side note to you. But I live in a world where most of the time when I read lists of people's favorite authors, almost all, if not all of them are male, way out of proportion to the general population, and even out of proportion to the publications. I live in a world where men are more likely to get long reviews in locus, to be nominated for several of the major awards, and make it onto the table of contents of the big three magazines. I live in a world where most publications receive far fewer submissions by women then men, and then *publish percentages even less than that*. I live in a world where Harper's magazine publishes seven men to every woman, where 6 of their last twelve issues had no women writers in them at all.
But, in an anonymous contest, you take our bylines off, and women represent half the final contestants? That's interesting. For someone whose career may be impeded by sexism, it's very interesting indeed.
For someone whose career won't be? For someone whose gender allows them to be the subject of "universal" literature? For someone for whom this is a hobby? Maybe this is an interesting side-note.
But perhaps you can see why it's more than that to me.