Hey Tweedy.
For what it's worth, I know I sounded pretty angry, but really, I don't have any serious issues with what people chose to believe, so long as they leave others free to make their own choices. I have friends who are christians, jewish, wiccans, buddists, people who believe they are dragons, and followers of the self-transforming machine elves. It's all good so long as it isn't being pushed on others. For myself, I'm an atheist because it seems most logical. In order to believe in one religion, I'd have to disbelieve in all the others. How could I possibly chose Jesus over Buddha, Rama, Zeus, Ra, the Goddess, etc? None of the religions are more plausible than the others, but at the same time, if a religion gives someone comfort and is not harming others, why would I have reason to care what they believe?
Here's my abstraction of religion: Basically you have only a few options.
1) There's no God.
2) There's one God.
3) There are multiple gods.
In the first case, it doesn't matter what you believe in or if you believe in nothing at all.
In the second case, given that there are so many religions, you have two possibilities. The first is that God is pretty mellow and as long as you try to do the right thing most of the time, you're probably alright, even if you're an atheist or you worship a jar of pickles. The other possibility is that the deity is petty and demands you live by some strict code that is never made crystal clear for all the people of the world at once. In which case, why worship them at all? You'll probably never live up to their standard, and there are so many religions, you probably aren't going to get it entirely right.
In the last case... If there are many gods, why chose one that will make your life miserable and who's a jerk to your neighbors? You'd be best off picking a fat jolly hedonistic god who really just wants man to reach for their full potential.
In all cases, the best thing really just seems to be "Don't be a jerk and the rest will take care of itself." If by some chance, only a single God exists and he's a prick... Well, at least you had a decent life, and really, who wants to spend the rest of eternity with a jerk anyhow?
I think Jesus allegedly said a bunch of stuff like that too. "Love thy neighbor" and that sort of thing. My family's problem isn't their religion. It's that they're ignorant. They are racist and xenophobic and while it isn't impossible to pull racist and xenophobic ideas out of the old testament, there are really very few instances of it (nevermind the fact that christians are supposed to really ignore OT and only give credence to NT)
Their homophobia is just another example of their ignorance. There are 3 places in the bible that can be construed as anti-gay. The levitican law... Christians, of course, ignore practically every other law in Leviticus except this one. Very inconsistent of them. The story of Sodom... Which is completely misunderstood. The book of Ezekiel defines the sin of the Sodomites. It wasn't anything to do with being gay. It was that they were selfish, greedy, and uncharitable and treated people who were different from them poorly (Ironic, isn't it?) And the last reference and only one in the NT is the bit where Paul has written that Jesus said a man shouldn't lie with another man. Paul, of course, was a sexist and racist asshole. Most of his writing are pretty hateful. Moreover, other apostles who gave the same sermon (see Luke and John) told the story a totally different way and it's really about adultery. In short. The only true edict made against homosexuality in the bible is the one law in leviticus, but if you want to follow that, you should also give up cotton-wool blends, pork, shellfish, masturbation, and using public transportation.
My family's bigotry makes me sad and angry. It's been 15 years (10 with the same woman) and yet they still won't accept that I am who I am. I tried waiting for them for 13 years, but when my grandmother died and I was forbade from even coming to her funeral and expressing my love for her, that was enough. I realized there was no point in letting them continue to rend my heart. I'll probably never stop loving them and wishing I could have that comfort I had as a child, but I've given up waiting for them.

How could anyone discard their own child, even for a god?