Hiya peeps, wanted to apologize for the image (bored in class), it's really that I'm so used to saying "faggot" a lot, it's lost it's meaning. I call my aforementioned gay best friend a fag all the time, he and his gay friends and his boyfriend and everyone know there is no malice behind it, and the word is thrown around so much it is no longer derogatory towards us (fun stuff

). It's actually funny, last time I went to Orlando to visit him, the first question I was asked by a girl I met there was "are you gay too?"

Anyway, I kind of agree with Talia here. Just because you do not realize your tendency to only side with your opinions doesn't mean you are exempt from being a bigot. Take that stupid fucking church of morons who parade around different towns with signs saying "God hates fags" and all the anti-soldier/gays/anti-America crap; tell me they aren't bigoted. They obviously hate gays because their overanalyzation of their religion tells them that it is bad, and tells them how to respond to it. That does NOT excuse their behavior in the least bit.
There are people with honest opinions, and then there are those who just stick to their guns (talking about the phrase here, not stereotype) and their religion (not phrase) and strive so hard to deny gays their rights. I am all for them having their opinions, however much I disagree, but it should play absolutely NO part in legal matters. Marriage is a social, religious, spiritual and/or legal union of individuals that creates kinship. It is NOT "between a man and a woman", it is a kinship.
Swamp, you don't agree with the gay lifestyle. That's fine, as long as it stays out of legal matters. You (and I'm not saying you do or will or anything) can go so far as to stay away from any and all "gay" activities, and not associate with gays, and even go so far as to shun them from your life if you must (again, not saying you do heh), but as long as your opinion does not affect the American legal system, I could not care less what you believe. I feel bad associating you with this... so ... new paragraph!
It's only when the opinions of people that are solely based on religion get in the way of equal rights progress that this shit gets ridiculous. Those people, the people who ignore the division of church and state, are bigots. I mean for Cthulhu's sake its a RULE! It has been [almost] inherent in our country! And those who chose to ignore it because of their convictions, I believe, can be called bigots. And yes, they ARE opponents, these people need to be ignored, their opinions need to be shunned from the argument, because within the context of legality, they are baseless. Homosexuality between two consenting adults hurts no one, and any harm that comes in the form of sexual diseases are prevalent in Heterosexual relationships as well. Homosexuality is only bad 'in the eyes of god', which cannot be allowed to influence legal matters.
My friend is perfectly happy being gay. He tried his hand at women, decided it wasn't for him, and his boyfriend makes him very happy, the guy is really cool too. I didn't meet him for the longest time, but when we finally met, it was like we had been friends for a long time. And sure I threatened his life should he hurt my friend, but hey, it's not gay bashing if it's not because he's gay, so I'm not worried about being persecuted for a hate crime, only murder

! Though now that I met him, it'll be harder to kill him because he's a friend... hmm... decisions, decisions...
as for thread split? I dunno, I'll leave it up to someone else to decide whether or not to split it. Personally I think what could be said about SF homophobia/gay/opinion has been said (but I really have no idea about the subject) and this thread has kinda sprouted a new life of it's own, sooo I'm fine with letting it play out, but if Heradel or Ben or someone thinks differently, by all means split the thread.
anyway I'm off, gonna pass out, so don't expect any quick retorts to whatever hell my opinions might be put through.
