I am one of those women that has "had" a man, just to have him boast to his friends that it was the other way around. From a young age I found I had more experience than most everyone around me, yet never got why I never dated. So I really related to this character, but that is exactly why it prickles me so much. Ultimately the undertones ruined it for me and the ending cinched the deal. I wanted to chuck this story across the room, luckily it was on my phone that is my life line. The taboos made her act the way she did, not just her being "evil" or any other derogatory girls name.