what I'm afraid of is languishing down at the bottom of the forum in obscurity.
Ah, but it's not languishing if you get read, is it? It withers and dies in obscurity if it's never shared, but even if it doesn't make it past the first round? You FINISHED something. You went from idea to polished piece, and that's more than many folks who want to be writers can yet credit to their names.
Trying and not-winning isn't failure. The only true failure is to allow that fear to keep you from putting your heart out there. I've heard something (credited to a lot of people, including Ray Bradbury) said -- that you have to write a million words before you can start writing good ones. It saddens me to know there are people who give up around the five thousand mark, what wonderful stories they'd produce if they only stuck to it all the way.
I cannot recommend this quote/video from Ira Glass enough. (I'm a fan of typography, so I'll add the video because it's gorgeous)
Youtube Video of the quoteImage of the quoteSometimes it feels like the people who say "everyone is a winner" and "there are no losers here" are just being nice? But it's SO incredibly true. Every time you finish something, you grow. And if growth and experience and skill isn't the point ... well, then I'm playing a different game than everyone else.
And I'm winning. *wink*